Reflection written by SWF Researcher and Research Communications Manager Emma Pavey
On 26th February, I led an online short course via Sarum College exploring Menopause and Theology, which drew a good crowd of participants.
In our short time together I offered thoughts on ways these two aspects of life intersect, structuring the time around the areas of unmaking, remaking and community. We looked at cultural, medical, and political issues that impact the (peri)menopause experience and the way it intersects with theology, and how taboos play a part in church and wider life.
We looked at what it means for each of us to have God accompany us through the psychological, physical and spiritual transition, digging in to this quote from one of my research participants.
‘I know that I’m experiencing something that is a very, physically is a, is a female thing to experience. Therefore, I need God to be a god that gets that.’ (Research participant)
We considered the challenges and what must be let go, as well as looking at theological metaphors of resurrection, conversion and salvation for exploring a way through and forward that leads to individual and relational flourishing, and how we might mark the transition with ritual(s), inside and outside the church. Finally, we turned to exploring our role and purpose, using notions of affinity and kinship, and examining a pull towards justice and activism.
Feedback was positive and we all enjoyed the chance to talk openly about this rarely-discussed topic that nonetheless affects so many:
Thank you – this has been brilliant!
Such a great range of things to go on and explore. Thanks so much.
Lots of good food for thought from Emma and other participants!
Thank you, it’s been great! Lots to reflect on and ponder!
In three hours we of course only scratched the surface of the myriad ways the perimenopause and menopause experience intersects with theological thinking and theopoetic living. I plan to repeat and extend the course, hopefully as an in-person offering. Do get in touch if this is something you would be interested in.
Find out more about the Menopause and Theology project.